How to Break the Pattern of Self-Abandonment
Are you often feeling left behind or rejected by other people?
Do you keep finding yourself in situations of abandonment?
Does these patterns somehow seem to repeat themselves?
Then keep reading….✨
The truth is— it’s not other people abandoning you— it’s actually you who are abandoning yourself.
An even deeper truth is— there is no other form of abandonment than the abandonment of Self...
So it’s not about others…
It’s all about you!
♡
I invite you to reflect on this:
The last time you felt abandoned by another person— (feel into this situation) you actually abandoned yourself long before they did…
When did YOU abandon YOURSELF?
What do I mean by this?
When did you....
Reject your own needs and made them "not so important"?
Make it "all about them" and placed yourself last on this list?
Stop speaking your truth out of fear that they would leave if you did...
Dim your light...
Pretend that you were fine, when you were not..
Tell yourself it was okay to be treated in a certain way, when the truth was that your heart was aching, and your entire being was telling you that it was not okay..
Allow yourself to be treated "less than"
Reject yourself and your own needs in order to "make them happy"
Settle for less....and began convincing yourself that it was okay. When it was just not. Deep inside you knew you deserved more...
Attempt to prove yourself worthy of receiving love...
These are all examples of self-abandonment. It’s the abandonment of self that is mirrored back to you in so called "abandonment-issues".
It actually doesn't have anything to do with others and their behaviour. The outer reality always reflect the inner one.
The key is to notice how you perceive things that are happening around you. Another person’s behaviour doesn’t have anything to do with you— unless you make it so.
If people are not liking who you are, not supporting or appreciating you in the way that you need, and if they are leaving you behind in a way that bring up feelings of abandonment and rejection, then you are invited to go within an examine your own inner story and beliefs.
No one is “making you feel” abandoned or rejected. These are feelings and beliefs that are already present within you.
I invite you to truly fully own that there is no other form of abandonment than the abandonment of Self.
Can you notice this shift?
I applaud you for making this choice.
There is such a a brilliant expansion and quantum healing happening when you own this truth, and start exploring at all the ways you have rested in victimhood, felt that you were not enough and believed that you were abandoned by others.
Remember that breaking the pattern of self-abandonment is a process and a practice. Have compassion for yourself as you are growing, changing, evolving and becoming present to your Divine Light.
♡
Dear One,
Your heart is always waiting for you to come home…
It’s always reminding you that:
✨You don’t have to seek love
✨You don’t have to earn love
YOU ARE LOVE - and it’s seeking you!
Waiting for you to become aware of it and embrace it!
I invite you to choose to focus on the magic of your own heart and the brilliance of your Sovereign Divine Light.
Feel the infinite flow of Love that is always expressing itself through you— guiding you to the magnificent life you came here for.
May you bask in the presence of Love that is you— feel your Fullness and Wholeness!!
Let yourself overflow with Love!
You may want to announce:
“I get to love myself”
Woahoaaa "I get to love myself"!!!
"I choose MYSELF"
"I get to be in love with me— and life— and truly ENJOY being here!"
Then you realize… nothing was ever missing… nothing was ever gone….
Love is your very essence!
For support in healing betrayals of the past, releasing old grief and pain that has been weighting you down, rising in self-love and unlocking the magic of your heart please check out my free meditation called Energy Cleanse & Source Light Activation.
In love and beauty,
Marita